The idea of being controlled by another human being, is normally something that we feel uncomfortable about, and even angry in having to do, but when it comes to sex, we all allow someone to take control of  us in one way or another. If we are being fucked or giving sex, both parties are agreeing to a form of control.

If we take that a stage further to bondage and more fetish fun sex, then the situation becomes more delicate. I have been getting into more fetish sex recently, especially being tied up and being under a control of a master. I have also allowed myself to be dominated by an experienced mistress (sweet Davina) that has sexual domination on both men and women.

She tells me that her male clients on average, prefer the dominatrix to be more aggressive, and even inflict pain and discomfort to the bodies of the slaves, and to control them totally. Whereas most of her women clients like to be restricted and controlled, but are not normally as keen to get the “hurt”  or humiliated to the same level.

To have a man at the feet of a mistress is a common occurrence, with the feet fetish being one of the normal add ons to being controlled. A man being tied and having his face slapped by his mistress, can be an exhilarating experience for the so called dominant sex.

Genital Spanking

A male slave can endure and enjoy genital torture, which includes having the penis continually pulled and spanked, or even to enjoy the feel of a whip occasionally lashing the penis. Of course this is a painful experience, but the pain is short lived, and the ability to take this from a dominatrix just adds to the thrill of serving as a sex fun slave.

The male genitalia is much easier to use in sexual domination, as the act of domination causes the erection, which shows the mistress that the slave is enjoying his pain and discomfort. The cock cannot lie, so no matter how a man will say “no”, if the cock says yes, then the mistress will to continue to put the slave through the agreed perimeters.

The penis can be empowered further to serve the mistress by a number of products, that can restrain and enhance the sexual sensation for the male being used. Something like ball stretchers will be a constant ache to the ball sac as the mistress punishes other areas of his body. A mans sexual thrills come from his balls and the shaft of the penis. There is no doubt that guys who enjoy having a mistress will nearly always require the mistress to abuse his genitalia continually.

There are so many ways to torture and use the penis, keeping the slave under the total control of his mistress. One of the more advanced toys to train the slave with is something that has to be used very carefully by experienced dommes only. The slave who can endure the penis plug, is a special slave indeed. This device is carefully inserted into the slit when the penis is either erect or limp. It will always be uncomfortable, and in most cases will be painful. But it is also a very sexually thrilling feeling for the guys who agree to take such punishment. This is even more fulfilling when the slave is unable protect the penis, when his hands are tied or restrained. He can only look at what is happening, and move his body away from the probe. But a well trained mistress will always win in such a situation. His cuffs will even stop him from masturbating, and this will mean he is unable to cum straight away. The whole orgasm is under the control of his mistress.

The slave will always want to close his legs too. This is an automatic reaction to discomfort and pain, and more importantly a way to help protect his manhood from the mistress and her fun toys. But there is even a way to stop this reaction, by using a spreader device. This forces the legs open, and allows the mistress to have unhindered access to the balls and cock area. There is nothing the slave can do allowing his master or mistress to do what he/she wants, totally.

Step On The Penis

After intial training, some male slaves enjoy being walked over by the mistress wearing high heels. They can even enjoy the mistress stepping on the penis repeatedly. The idea is NOT to cause damage. The WHOLE idea is to inflict pain and discomfort in order for the slave to surrender himself to the mistress. The end result is of course to let the slave fulfuil HIS sexual dreams.

The mistress can allow him to cum by himself, or she can force it to happen under her forceful hands and mouth. Or she may even allow the slave to finish off the session by entering her and doing what he was born to do. The man is her sex toy, but the man has AGREED to be used. There is no crime, merely an agreement between two sexual beings to use and be used for sexual gratification.

The extremes of abuse can go from watersports to drawing blood. From group abuse to cages and beyond. But the whole thing MUST always be consentual. A mistress is a desire not a fear. I hope to get more involved as time goes on.