I am not a person for a real serious relationship. I love to meet guys and girls as friends , and sometimes they become great fuck buddies for mutual pleasure. Most of you will be saying that I have not met the right person yet, and maybe you guys are correct.

About five years ago I fell deeply in love with an Asian guy, who I dated for five months. I always knew he was holding a secret, but what I dd not understand at the time, was that he was married with a kid. How did I find out? His wife found out about me, and tracked me down.

Can You Have Your Cake And Eat It?

Long story short, we decided to share him. She wanted the family to stay together, and I wanted him too. But what did he really want? How on earth do we all deal with this strange issue? His wife met him alone, and of course there was screaming and tears, but she told him she was willing to share him with me. But, honestly can this really work?

Amin (not his real name), came to see me after seeing his wife. He told me that he would NEVER choose between the two of us, and that he would have us both in his life at the same-time. Amazingly this seemed to work, as for three days he would be with me, and the rest with his wife. We had fun sex, went on vacations, and I introduced him as my boyfriend wherever I went.

Amin was a very nice guy, and the agreement worked well for about two months. His wife never gave him a bad time about me, and he was free to do what he wanted. The three of us seemed to have the perfect compromise for the problem. But of course, life never goes to plan, and his father found out about me (I honestly do not know how), but the reaction was violent towards him, and he had family threats. Within two days of that happening, Amin had cleared out his stuff, and I never saw him again.

For me, on that occassion it did not work. But I know many guys who have a great “open relationship” with wives and girlfriends. In fact it goes beyond the open relationships, as this is falling in love with two people at the same-time. Most of the guys seem to have no problem with this, and they insist their partners are fine with it, as long as there is love in the relationship.

How Do You Meet A Girlfriend You Can Share?

Right now all you guys will be saying “That works for me”, well even in this liberated way of life, it is by no way the norm. For a lady to agree to share her man with another, is still something that will cause you guys to get a divorce, or a split up. The women out there willing to share their mans love is few.

The first thing to do is really sit down with your current partner and talk about open relationships, and see where that part of the conversation goes. I know more women will allow their man to go be naughty in an open relationship, and expect them back, when they have got it out of their system. I think most women know men think with their cocks first anyway.

The assumption you can go for sex meets, to a fling, then an affair, and then to a secondary relationship is a big road to travel guys. Even if your partner agrees to you having another lady to share, the other lady is going to be very difficult to locate.

Thank goodness you guys have the Internet to use. Because by a few clicks on your PC, you can set up a profile that allows you to tell people exactly what you are doing and wanting. You can say in your profile that you are looking for someone to share your life with, to fall in love with, and to have sex with. This person will be able to understand that you will be doing this with your partners consent.

There are numerous sites that can be the road to assisting guys to find this oppurtunity. Take a look at sites like cheating housewives, Niche dating and Wildmatch.com.

There are more details in my article called Luring Your Fuck Buddy.