Of course when we indulge in fuck buddy sex, we can of course meet people who are already married, or in a serious relationship. And although these people are just for fun fuck buddies, there are times when you need to keep them secret, unless of course you have a really wonderful open relationship.

We all have to realise that cheating is not something to be proud of, but this is the real world- and we all have those urges outside our normal relationships. And most men I have met, are very conscious of not hurting their other halves, and most treat fuck buddy meets as a pure sex get together with friends. From their point of view it is sex and never love.

New Women Like Fuck Buddies

Most men think along the same lines, and less women consider that to be true. I think the younger generation of women, ( and I include myself in this category)  find that having fuck buddies is much more acceptable. And in a lot of ways keeps the sex life with your other full time partner alive. As fuck buddies have little to be jealous with, it is just like borrowing someones elses car. Well perhaps that is not a very good analogy.

Knowing that most women do not share the idea of her man going off for fuck buddy sex, it is important many times to keep those sex meets secret from them. Nobody wants a destroyed relationship, or a financial explosion that may  come from divorce or separation.

Women can see through men lying. We have an automatic alarm system deep inside us, that can read your eyes, blood pressure and sweating. We are walking human lie detectors who can chase down a lie in minutes.

So, having said all this, the pull of fuck buddy sex is too strong to ignore. So how do you keep a fuck buddy secret, without alerting your partner to a problem?

Keeping Your Fuck Buddy Secret

The best advice guys is not too lie much. If you are meeting your fuck buddy, then try to meet her outside your off work time. Yes, it is difficult to get time off work, but it is easy trying to get time off from your partner without arranging suspicion.

If you cannot use work as a good excuse, then maybe you should invent a hobby that means you have to be out of the house. Maybe something like a Chess club or Karate club. Make sure you actually do join and occasionally do go, as the receipts in your pockets need to be “found” during washing.

Keep spare clothing in the car for sex dates, and get them cleaned elsewhere. A woman will smell another woman on your clothing very quickly, so maybe you should use a laundrette away from your area. The perfume of a woman can be strong, so you will really have to to try and wash it off, and maybe you should start to use a new strong deodorant to disguise anything. But that deodorant you will have use everyday from that point.

If you use public transport, make sutre you lose the stubs. If you buy anything with your fuck buddy, or for your fuck buddy, buy in cash only. Do not look at anything online to buy, as this is going to be found by your partner. We can read through your history files in seconds. I am guilty of it.

Women are naturally curious. Even my man who goes to meet fuck buddies with my permission has to put up with me looking for details and clues of who he is seeing. I will search his clothing, and I will look on his phone and PC and even drop open questions to his friends. Now I am cool with him playing away, but even I still will do this.

When servicing your fuck buddy, make sure that you look out for any scratches or bruises, and be prepared to have a reason for them. Never ever take pictures of your fuck buddy on your phone, and never use your normal Sim to contact her.

A fuck buddy understands the position, so never be “bullied” by a fuck buddy for a meet that is not convenient to you both. The fuck buddy is someone who will enjoy sex meets, but is NOT meant to put demands on you or your lifestyle. Take a look at my article on Interacting with your fuck buddy.

Do Not Brag To Your Mates About Your Sex Life

Guys don’t tell your mates what you are doing. A drunken night at home, and your friend will drop something to his girl. Within seconds your partner will know. This is YOUR fuck buddy, so keep it really between you and her. Unless you are into orgy sex.

Meeting your fuck buddy is a meeting of similar minds, with similar sexual needs. By all means enjoy great fun sex with each other, and enjoy the play out of the mutual fantasy sex meets. Be friends too. But if you go beyond friends, and it becomes an affair, you will be having to reevaluate everything.

For me guys sex is fun. I will sleep with guys or girls that are nice and are honest. I am not yet into a monogamous relationship, but if I was. I would try and watch my boyfriend 24/7, to ensure he is not meeting other Lexxi types. Jealousy is part of life guys, especially in us ladies.