If you paid attention to the previous lesson, you’d know that the main focus of having a fuck buddy is to engage in casual consensual sex. This means that the two of you can have regular sex with no strings attached, and without the problems that come up in formal committed relationships. Since mutual physical pleasure is the goal of a casual relationship, your partner should be someone who is your exact sexual match. This doesn’t mean that you have to have exactly the same skills in bed, but the two of you should be open to the same amount of experimentation, and that both of you can open up each other sexually. It is therefore important that you create an online profile that reflects who you are and what you want out of a fuck buddy relationship.

Setting Up Your Profile:

The first thing you have to do to get started with your online profile is to register at an online “adult” dating site. I personally recommend that you register for free accounts with at least 2 of the sites we reviewed yesterday so that you can take them for a test drive. This allows you to find the site that you’re most comfortable with before you commit to a paid membership. Here are the following profile features of each of the mentioned sites:

Fling.com

• The site is growing at a fantastic rate, with thousands of new member profiles being added everyday.
• You get exclusive access to millions of hot photos, and watch live webcam porn from other Fling.com members – straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transsexual members – you name it!
• Fling.com makes it possible for you to find just the kind of person you’d like to hook up with via quick profile match.
• An award-winning real-time video chat technology allows you to get acquainted with a potential mate before you meet, increasing your comfort level if you decide to get to the real thing.

AdultFriendFinder.com

• Registration is quick and easy
• Free registration that allows you to have almost full access to AdultFriendFinder’s features
• Your profile can be matched with people that you’re sexually compatible with
• Simple and Advanced searches are available
• Definitely the most “adult” of the three suggested sites

SexSearch.com

• The free membership gives you very limited access to great features, allowing you to upload photos and videos, as well as contact other members by email and their “show interest” feature
• The Gold Membership includes access to “The Gold Room”, an astounding collection of porn that will inspire you for your fuck buddy encounters
• The search features are fully customizable
• If you don’t find what you want via the search features, you can select from a list of criteria and you will automatically be notified if someone is looking for the same things as you are.

When you fill out the personal profile questionnaire in the above sites, you will be asked for your location, ethnicity, and even your level of kinkiness, as well as what you like in bed. Filling out your profile truthfully will allow you to get exact matches out of the millions of registered members. However, creating a really effective and attractive profile is more than just about telling the truth…

Do’s and Don’ts When Creating a Profile:

When you’re working on your profile, keep in mind that your primary goal is to find a fuck buddy, not a soulmate. Put up your profile under “1-on-1 encounters” or “casual encounters” so that it’s clear to the other members that you’re looking for something casual and recreational.

1. Avoid making any distasteful, graphic comments about sex. You can probably say something like “Right now, I’m tired of those complex dating games, so I’m just looking for something casual but passionate. I really like sex, and I’m not afraid to admit it!” By playing it cool and injecting a bit of humor, you give off the impression that while you’re a sexual creature, you also have class.
2. Leave something to the imagination. Don’t fully describe yourself, whether it’s about your physical appearance, your job, or your finances. It’s true that everyone loves a good mystery – just show them the best parts to whet their appetite! After all, you want them to contact you and ask you for more, right?
3. Don’t show off. Nothing’s more annoying than a guy bragging about his car, job, or penis size. It sounds immature and you come off as if you’re trying too hard.
4. Make sure that everything is spelled correctly and that you have perfect grammar. This doesn’t mean that you have to sound like a Rhodes scholar, but at least you wouldn’t seem illiterate.

What Your Photo Says About You:

Choosing a photo for your online profile is like an art. You have to show yourself in your best light, as well as make sure that it reveals your personality. It’s true that a picture can paint a thousand words, and you’d definitely want those words to do you justice.

1. The picture should be well lighted. Your face has to be seen clearly so that you will be easily recognized. The light behind you shouldn’t be too strong either, as it will make your face and other objects in the foreground be darker. Choosing a well lighted photograph will show that you’re serious about finding a fuck buddy and that you’re not just “trying out” a dating site.
2. If you’re including a photo with clothes (cause let’s face it, you may want to add more “revealing” photos, since these are allowed in most of the mentioned sites) make sure that the clothes you’re wearing are neat and clean. This shows that you have a sense of hygiene and won’t be sloppy in the bedroom.
3. Your primary photo should always be a solo picture. This creates confusion because it may not be obvious which one you are in the photo. Also, some members might get attracted to other people in the picture. You may include photos with other people to show that you’re a social creature, but don’t use them as your primary photos.
4. Select photos that don’t reveal too much about your personal life, such as your car, workplace, home, or income. This includes photos of your office building where signs, logos, and addresses are clearly visible. You want to find a fuck buddy, not a stalker.
5. Make sure that you choose a recent photograph. You don’t want your fuck buddy to expect you to look 10 years younger if you display a photo that was taken in 1996.

Of course, once you post your profile, potential partners will be clamoring to be your fuck buddy – but only if you do it right. For more tips on creating profiles that will magnetically attract women to you, check out “Meeting Women Online”.

Summary…

Finding a fuck buddy online can have great, rewarding results. You can meet a lot of people, and have access to great features that will enhance your experience (and sexual knowledge). This is why it’s important to find an online matchmaking site that suits your taste, and to create profiles that truly reflect what you want. The same rules apply when you’re looking for a fuck buddy in person – you have to be comfortable with the situation, and you have to be clear on what you both want out of your casual relationship.

But before you select a fuck buddy, you need to know if they’ll give you a great fuck buddy experience or if they’ll just drive you crazy. The next review will show you how to read between the lines and tell whether she’s hot or not, as well as more details on how to reel in the perfect fuck buddy!

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