I am very guilty as charged, that is with regard to going out with guys who have girlfriends and wives. I know that some of you will judge me, but I have no doubt that the man is responsible for his marriage, not me. I will never meet the girlfriends or wives, my needs are purely physical, and I will not probably be meeting the same guy on a regular basis. So for me it is NOT an affair, but just fun sex.

One of the problems I come across with guys who have something to hide, is the “Where shall we do it?” problem. I am very happy to use my place but only after seeing the guys for awhile, you never can be too careful, so a neutral place is perfect to have your fun . That is cool for me, and I can get out and probably enjoy a meal too, well at least room service.

I am amazed  just how much some guys panic, when trying to arrange a hotel. I think that they use so much energy up on trying to arrange a secret sex meet in a hotel, and have no energy left for me.

Honestly guys, we do not want to be involved in the “How difficult” it is, or my “My wife may see me”. The problem is yours. So in order to help, I am giving a few pointers of what to consider before you meet us girls in a hotel. The assumption here is that you do have a significant other, that you do not want to know what you are doing.

Choosing The Hotel

The Hotel needs to be somewhere mutually accessible to both. There is no point making it so difficult to get to, so that a long tiring journey will take the excitement out of the forthcoming meet.

The Hotel needs to be clean and tidy, and it needs to set the mood. A dark dingy “screwing” hotel is not what we want. The ladies that provide a paid service may put up with this, but the rest of us will not. If you want our mood to be erotic, then the choice of hotel is very important.

Make sure it is a hotel you have NOT stayed with family members before, and if possible try to ensure it is a hotel that is not employing your girlfriends dad as a porter. Big mistake. Book the hotel on the phone, NOT the Internet, and DO NOT pay on your credit card. Ask a friend to pay for you, and pay him the cash. If you have no friend, then pay cash, after begging them to hold the room.

Ensure that you do not let them ring your phone for confirmation, as somebody may be listening. It is far better to have the friend make all the calls, but if that is not possible, then have a spare SIM card.

Insist that you want NO offers or promotions sent to your home address. Book the room as a double room, no need to pretend you are friends. It is a hotel, people shag in hotels all the time.

Travelling To The Hotel

Try to travel alone, no giving a lift part of the way to a friend. Avoid your normal roads, as people you know may recognise you and your vehicle and DO NOT be late.

On Arrival

When booking in make sure you remember your name you gave at the point of booking. Very important here to realise that most hotels ask for ID, so if you use a false name, you need to back it up. Also remember that some hotels like to hold the credit card as a deposit, no problem as long as you break nothing or order from that mini bar. Pay everything in cash, and the credit card will not be activated.

Make sure the lady is there, if not phone and check and reassure her everything is OK. Order her a drink at the bar, and a light meal of her choice. Sex does not just have to be straight to the physical, you have time later for that.

Service Her In The Room

Have a bottle of wine ready in the room, and break the ice by a glass and then perhaps a sexy shower together to start things rolling. Again do not rush it guys, the last thing we need is a stallion that will empty his load before we girls are ready. We will let you take the lead, but we control the passion.

Make sure you have already purchased the condoms, and that you have her favorite vagina toy. We like long foreplay, so be ready to take your time, and help us get right into that sex mood. Nothing wrong with sex toys, or a sensual massage to start the unison.

After Sex Moments

DO NOT light a cigarette, belch and sleep. Even worse DO NOT get dressed and say that was “GOOD”. The sex may have been paused, but the time has not. Treat us with respect, and talk to us. Maybe if you do it right, you will get a second session.

If you get this right, and you provide enjoyable sex, we WILL want more. Any girl, would be happy to come back to a lover who has made her moan. Of course most guys are “fuck and go”, so it may be helpful to read up on what a woman wants in sex. After all, every little thing you guys do that impress us, will lead us to deliver ourselves to you again and again.

How to give a woman what she wants in sex.